I used to believe my life was built on solid ground.
Not perfect—no one’s is—but steady. Predictable in the ways that make you feel safe. I knew who I was. I knew where I came from. I knew the rules: keep things neat, keep things quiet, don’t dig into places that don’t need digging.
That’s how my mother, Nancy, raised me.
Order mattered. Appearances mattered. Truth… well, truth mattered too—but only the kind that didn’t complicate things.
