After five years of cleaning him, lifting him, and serving as his full-time nurse, I overheard my paralyzed husband laughing with a stranger and saying I was his “free servant” and that he wouldn’t leave me a single penny

If someone says five years out loud, it sounds almost trivial, like a small chapter easily turned. Yet when those five years are measured not in calendars but in hospital corridors, prescription schedules, and the stale scent of antiseptic that never quite leaves your clothes, time does not pass normally. It congeals. It presses against your chest. It becomes something …