At seventeen, I got a printed county community college bus schedule and instructions to memorize the stops.
Presley’s orthodontics, elite volleyball camps, and spring-break trips to Cancun with her sorority sisters passed through the family budget without resistance. PlanFamily Trips
Meanwhile, my contact lenses were considered “an excessive luxury” for two years.
I paid for my two-year associate’s degree with crumpled bills earned working at a diner every Friday and Saturday night throughout high school.
I don’t say this for pity.
I say it because the ledger matters.
It explains everything that happened next.
If you grew up inside that same cruel arithmetic, know that someone else was keeping count.
I didn’t scream that morning.
I didn’t flip the mug or tear the listing apart.