Harold and I shared forty-four years of marriage.
We met at a church picnic in Flagstaff in 1979. He was twenty-six. I was twenty-five. He was a high school shop teacher with sawdust in his hair and a laugh you could hear across a parking lot. I was a bookkeeper at a lumber company. He came for student lumber, then spent an hour debating prices with me.
He asked me to dinner. I said no.
He came back the next week for more two-by-fours he didn’t need.
I said yes.
We moved to Tucson in 1984. Harold got a job teaching woodshop at Catalina High School. I took a job handling the books for a plumbing company.
We bought a little house on East Linden Street. Two bedrooms. A carport. A front porch with a ceiling fan that wobbled.
It cost fifty-eight thousand dollars.